Some, not most, and a lot are bitter and angry and even if you find someone willing to hit it, they won’t be ther in the morning, and if reverting in your 40s to your drunken skank sorority days is where they want to be.. and dillude themselves that regression is progress, more power to them.
They’ll be whining about how they cannot find a decent man to date soon enough after they get over their little cougar fest. Seen it pleanty of times.
A guy in his 30s and 40s can pretty much date and marry a gal in any age bracket... I can’t name any 40something gal (or older) I know who married or even had a long term relationship with someone significantly younger. I can tell you of dozens of guys who married younger after their divorces.
I know the MILF fad is all the rage right now, but even that porn driven fad is coming to an end.
Younger, Prettier, and smarter, into families with old money.
Never give the ex-wife crap. The best revenge... is to live well.