No, Mrs. Edwards, the media is NOT to blame. Your husband is!! He committed adultery, and then he lied repeatedly to cover his sorry ass. It is NOT over. He moved her to NC so he could continue seeing her, when all along he knew that you were sick and dying, and the despicable scum did it anyway.
Unfortunately, there are men and women, like your husband and my ex-husband who are so callous that they don't care about anything but what makes them feel good. I was given 5 years or less to live in 1991 and my husband got involved in an adulterous relationship with a girl at work. He couldn't even wait for me to die, but unlike you, I kicked him out and filed for divorce. I have NO use for a man who cheats on his wife, but one who does it when his wife is dying doesn't deserve to live, IMO. ;) I'm happy to say that not only did I not die, but God totally healed me. I moved on with my new lease on life and I've been very happy. I've never looked back.
His life since then has been troubled. She ruined his credit record, and they had major problems with her two teenage daughters, which brought him significant embarrassment. Believe it or not, I just found out that their divorce was final just last week. LOL
OMG, what a double whammy. That you are still here is a testimony to your strength!
Good for you. Spent 20 years as a nurse in Oncology. Saw several men and women desert a spouse in the late stages of cancer. Even had divorce papers served on one woman while she was so sick, receiving chemo. Any one who can do that is not a human IMO.