People have either XX or XY genes that make them either man or woman. True there are the rare hermaphodites in between, but you can’t compare that to transsexualism or cross-dressing.
One's anatomy plays a huge role in how the world see's that person and how that person is required to interact with the world, but one's anatomy and chromosomes do not determine who they are.
Is it simply breasts and a vagina that make a woman significantly different in personality than a man?
Why do women like the things they like and do the things they do? Is it because they have a vagina? Obviously not.
There is something innately different about women. I don't mean anatomically or physiologically. I mean with how they interact in the world.
Babies are born with defects all day long. Some of those defects are very visible.
Why is it impossible to understand or believe that a baby could be born male, but innately they are female? It's no fault of their's.
Freddie Mercury drag queens and cross-dressers are offensive to me, and I believe they do so to shock, or excite certain segments of society. I think they do a gross disservice to those people that were born into bodies and lives that they did not feel at home in. Their personalities did not match who they were on the inside and they simply wished to live life, and express themselves in a manner that was more comfortable with who they really are.
Would you consider a baby born with some visible physical defect, a freak? Why then someone that is born into a body that does not reflect their personality and interests?