What you are or are not “saddened by” is of no importance to me.
I am sorry that I seemed judgemental. I had just lost my Father in Law within an hour of your post, and I was a little verclempt at his passing. Although you are rightfully so not impressed by my “saddening”, I hope that you can fight through the bitterness that you display. I for one, buried my Father in Law today, received his flag, and have a different perspective at the moment. However, I certainly meant no disrespect on your feelings. We all have to sort out the cards that we are dealt.