[RavenATB]

“The job of the bridesmaid is to make the bride look good. She should WANT bridesmaids that won’t upstage the bride.”

That’s true. But in this narcissistic nation it’s very unusual to find young women who are interested in anything but making themselves the center of attention.

[MotleyGirl70]

But in this narcissistic nation it’s very unusual to find young women who are interested in anything but making themselves the center of attention.

You don't say.

[jimfree]

“The job of the bridesmaid is to make the bride look good. She should WANT bridesmaids that won’t upstage the bride.”

That’s true. But in this narcissistic nation it’s very unusual to find young women who are interested in anything but making themselves the center of attention.

There is somebody I need to give an extra hug tonight. 29 years ago Mrs. jimfree dressed her bridesmaids quite differently from her but quite attractively. I can imagine any of them having worn the dress again for another event. She comforted me before the ceremony, removing the focus from her and placing it on the meaning of the vows.

She's working this Sunday afternoon and I have fixed a nice supper for her. This thread has raised a good reason to appreciate her even more.

Oh, the bridesmaids made Ann look good - but I think they did that while making themselves look good. It is possible.