(How about this, Miss Bride-To-Be? How about YOU sign a contract agreeing not to put on weight after we’re married?)
Exactly!!! I think that’s the biggest gribe husbands have.
According to Eaker it’s an excuse to sleep with a whore and beat the wife.
I’m amazed by the whole wedding fiasco I keep seeing. I did experience it with one bride I had the misfortune to be a bridesmaid for but didn’t realize it was getting so bad until I watched some of those cable shows about weddings.
The unfortunate time I was a bridesmaid for a loony bride (or the most loony bride), the bride was miserable at her own wedding. It was all about her being a queen and her little princesses (the bridesmaids) around her - and yeah she wrote this in a note to me after her bridal shower that I couldn’t attend because I had mid-terms and she couldn’t understand that. And this was in the 80’s.
And it killed her, and according to her literally, that I refused to wear my hair up in some updo thing. I thought that was bad but watching these wedding shows, hell, count me out, I’d rather be a guest.
I had the big wedding too, and had a blast. Our wedding pics and video show how much fun we had. Once I entered that church, nothing else matter than the Sacrament and vows my husband and I were exchanging, and once we entered the limo after the church, it was all about enjoying our day and having fun. A big Penn State football game was on and our entire bridal party was concerned with the game, lol. I wasn’t even concerned during the months prior to the wedding. “They” say wedding prep is so stressful but I personally think it’s only for those who make it stressful.