My stepmother insisted on a big wedding. We wanted something smaller and I also did it partly for my mom. My Dad also has some political and social standing so it was kind of a bit necessary in our area for us to have a big wedding and I am the only girl.
But 10 years on June 20th we’re very happy with 3 beautiful children.
The thing most people remember is my Dad paying tribute to my stepfather in his toast at the rehearsal dinner.
We had a rather large wedding party. My best friend since I was 8 was my maid of honor, I had 8 bridesmaids and 2 flower girls. We had a best man, 8 groomsemen and 2 ring bearers.
We also had the whole enchilada Catholic mass. The thing I liked best about it is we were able to have our aunts and uncles be a part of the wedding by doing things. Both cases the aunt and uncle were like a second set of parents to us.
Sounds lovely, and I’m glad you’ve had a happy marriage. Lots of folks don’t anymore. It’s all glam and no substance. Your father must be a great man!