I read this whole article and it is refreshing because it highlights the damage the feminist movement has done to relationships, marriage, and women in general.
Sure, I think my wife settled for me in a way. I am not the most romantic. I work a lot of hours. I have interests that bore her. I have different interests altogether. I may not be as spry and athletic as I once was. I may have a disassociated listening capability to her problems.
But
I am home at night. I help around the house. I am a father to my child. I can cook my own dinner. We live comfortably. I don’t have bad addictions. I don’t have regrets. I appreciate everything she does.
Some women LOVE men who work a lot, are really good at what they do, and love things that are boring - or boring to some people, not others. She got lucky.
you sound like my husband.......stable, sturdy type of guy.......the kind you love for a lifetime...