We all know the web phenom of the flame-out, the hissy fit storm off post flurry as a person deprives us all of his illustrious presence. And we are all aware that it is hysterical, a piece of laughable self importance.
If you want to go, then just go. Nobody is stopping you. The grace of the angels does not follow your footfalls and desert whoever you desert, that we should run after you, pleading, or follow along.
Welcome to adulthood, where you realize nobody else needs you, they have their own lives, and if you choose to work with them great, and if not fine, and the world will turn regardless.
Wonderful post, thanks.