Perhaps so ... and if this is how you talk to non-Christians, I would strongly recommend that you avoid any attempt at evangelism. Your comments are the of the sort that has done tremendous damage to my daughter's faith: they're a perfect example of how "some Christians talk a lot about love, but they certainly don't show it."
To put it bluntly: your comments are exactly the sort that give Christians a bad name. Perhaps a bit of personal reflection is in order.
Pharisees are not going to win the battle for hearts and minds in America.
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