Particularly when she says your guy is a loser and you can do better. Perhaps you can. Very many women I know are bitter because they dumped their guy and now discover that nobody as good as him has any interest in middle-aged women with kids
SImilarly when a woman dumps her man at the advice of a close girlfriend only to find out that her close friend is now screwing him.
See my post 186#. Totally agree.
Make that 156