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TO WOMEN: How to Build A lasting Relationship
1/20/08 | bear_slayer

Posted on 01/20/2008 9:42:43 PM PST by Bear_Slayer

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To: PapaBear3625

See my post 186#. Totally agree.


161 posted on 01/21/2008 8:20:13 AM PST by KC_Conspirator
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To: PapaBear3625

Make that 156


162 posted on 01/21/2008 8:20:23 AM PST by KC_Conspirator
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To: Psycho_Bunny

Wow. All I can say is that you are about to do alot of heavy lifting with that girlfriend of yours. Good luck!


163 posted on 01/21/2008 8:23:20 AM PST by KC_Conspirator
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To: dljordan
I agree, but, so far, I'm not running.


165 posted on 01/21/2008 8:27:50 AM PST by Rb ver. 2.0 (Global warming is the new Marxism.)
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To: I_like_good_things_too

NOOO!


166 posted on 01/21/2008 8:28:37 AM PST by Rb ver. 2.0 (Global warming is the new Marxism.)
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To: najida

That was supposed to be private, I’m asking the mod to remove it.


167 posted on 01/21/2008 8:29:23 AM PST by najida (I am so grateful that stupid isn't contagious.)
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To: Grizzled Bear

LOL!
No, what I have is an FR Pinglist of “Wimmen R’Evil”.

This is one of those threads.


168 posted on 01/21/2008 8:31:13 AM PST by najida (I am so grateful that stupid isn't contagious.)
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To: najida
I’m asking the mod to remove it.

Why? ... it's as reasonable, and valuable, as the list at the top of the thread.

169 posted on 01/21/2008 8:31:17 AM PST by ArrogantBustard (Western Civilisation is aborting, buggering, and contracepting itself out of existence.)
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To: Bear_Slayer

Good luck with all of that...


170 posted on 01/21/2008 8:32:38 AM PST by fleagle ( An appeaser is one who feeds a crocodile, hoping it will eat him last. -Winston Churchill)
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To: Bear_Slayer
I may be thinking, “I could strangle her, but where would I hide the body.”

That's sad. I never think that. I have several hiding places already picked out.

171 posted on 01/21/2008 8:34:54 AM PST by Wolfie
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To: ArrogantBustard

Thanks-—
These bash threads are just so one sided and unfair.

And I’ve yet to meet a man, who when bitching about a woman’s baggage, was doing it because he didn’t have space in the Uhaul he was dragging around behind him.


172 posted on 01/21/2008 8:36:50 AM PST by najida (I am so grateful that stupid isn't contagious.)
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To: najida
LEAVE HER STUFF ALONE!!!! She’ll leave yours alone.

WRONG! 30 years down the wedding trail and she still gets my stuff without asking first, uses it, and then promptly misplaces or loses it. I can't count the times I've hacked my face bloody like Freddy Kruger with my razor after she's used it to scrap the sandpaper off her legs. And BTW, she has her own razor.

173 posted on 01/21/2008 8:37:06 AM PST by OB1kNOb (Live long, Duncan Hunter, and return soon to win the war against liberalism, the scourge of freedom.)
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To: najida

Spanky and Alfalfa founded the “HeMan Women Haters Club” then Yoko Darla busted that up.


174 posted on 01/21/2008 8:38:04 AM PST by BigDaddyTX (Don't Mex with Texas)
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To: najida

Not saying I agree with everything in it ... but the usual female response to this sort of thread is mindless shrieking ... hence the usual degradation of the thread into a bash-fest.

I welcome the reasonableness.


175 posted on 01/21/2008 8:39:57 AM PST by ArrogantBustard (Western Civilisation is aborting, buggering, and contracepting itself out of existence.)
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To: najida

Dang.

It’s gone.

That really sucks.

I shoulda saved it while I had the chance.


176 posted on 01/21/2008 8:41:16 AM PST by ArrogantBustard (Western Civilisation is aborting, buggering, and contracepting itself out of existence.)
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To: ArrogantBustard

Thanks.

I mean, I can one up-—
For every horror story a guy here has, so does a female.

It just makes me sad.


177 posted on 01/21/2008 8:41:28 AM PST by najida (I am so grateful that stupid isn't contagious.)
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To: ArrogantBustard

I’ll PM it to you.


178 posted on 01/21/2008 8:41:59 AM PST by najida (I am so grateful that stupid isn't contagious.)
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To: KC_Conspirator
Yep, it is a fact. The problem is there always seem to be two (at least) that are involved in this dysfunction.

One, the ‘abused’ woman who is often the real problem and who is weak and unable to keep her own counsel and unable to confront her own relationship straightforwardly and honestly

I hope your experience worked out as well. The other is the ‘Girl Friend’ who, as you rightly point out, is often completely dysfunctional herself and with her own agenda that, at some level, hates what she sees as the “abusive, controlling, domineering men” she believes she has encountered her whole life and who she is going to protect her friend from in the future.

While not a formal alliance in terms of rules and regulations (There are so-called ‘Women’s Support Groups’ that are sometimes in this area) it is a widespread behavior trait on the part of many women.

I speak from experience as well, having successfully beaten off such an assault on my privacy, my home life and my relationship, but it was not easy even though the facts were perfectly clear. I just had to overcome what I see as a certain irrationality in many women and the rest was easy.

179 posted on 01/21/2008 8:43:52 AM PST by TCats
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To: OB1kNOb

Yep, and during my marriage every gift I got from a family member ‘disappeared’. A CD I got from a friend of 30 years got tossed in the trash. If he didn’t like it or want to see it, it vanished...his remark was ‘it was junk’.....


180 posted on 01/21/2008 8:45:18 AM PST by najida (I am so grateful that stupid isn't contagious.)
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