Exactly. My daughter is not a bad girl and very rarely misbehaves, she merely does not process like other kids and gets distracted then panics when constantly confronted. She was becoming a very sad girl and began feeling she was less than perfect and was very self-critical at age 8 and it broke my heart. So you non-believers can kiss my butt. I’d do it again every chance I’d get, she is a happy child again.
One behavior characteristic she does have is the want to be in everybody’s business.
Look,
You’re a good parent and she’ll be OK. You’re doing the right things......
When an ADDer is accused of thinking outside of the box, their reaction is “There’s a box!?!?”
Those problems will be gifts....