There was one documentary about one guy who was superobese - even when his family didn’t feed him enormous meals, he would call to a restaurant for food when they weren’t in, go to the window of his several-story high apartment and lower money in a bucket to the delivery guy. Then he’d lift the bucket and up would come the food.
This is a great thread to motivate new years’ resolutions, though!
Re: calling the delivery people, if it was my relative, I’d take out the phone and nail the window shut.
What’s the immobile person going to do about it? They’d eat only what I gave them until they were at least able to get up!
Call it tough love. I would not tolerate that sort of behavior from a loved one of mine.