I hate your son had the accident. It would hurt me if either of my sons had an accident. We went through a few fender benders when they were in high school and I suppose most everyone who raised boys may have experienced this. I always thank the Lord no one is hurt. It could always be worse. I know girls have car wrecks too because my granddaughter totaled one on pure ice and it scared her absolutely to death.
My son’s good friend was killed during high school in a car accident. Three came out with just cuts and scratches but this sweet 16 year old was thrown from the car and died. It nearly killed us all. He had spent a lot of time at our house. My son happened not to be with them that evening. Praise the Lord.
It was scary for him but hopefully it will wake him up. I have to replace the bumper, front fender and headlight.
I lost a few friends during my youth, I have turned into a cautious driver and abide by speed limits, well within 10 mph or so. : )