When I was in law school a fellow graduate student (medical school) used to tell the story that when she was a swimmer on the women’s swim team of a well known university, she asked for, and received, permission to use the men’s locker room and shower. She said that if she had to be ogled when changing or showering, she would rather that it was men, not women doing it. She also said that the men were largely very gracious about her presence in their locker room.
“... the men were largely very gracious about her presence in their locker room.”
Well... duh! Can you say “don’t spoil a good thing”?!?!
I would break some graciousness records myself.
I suspect that the shower room had more wood than an Amish furniture factory.