American women they meet see them in that context. Should these women marry one of these guys, they are faced with the shock of their lives.
They are driven about by retainers and chaperoned by guards, whom they sometimes are lucky enough to leave behind and visit western compounds. Got to be the saddest women on earth. Occasionally they will try to get themselves and their children smuggled out ... and occasionallty are never heard from again.
I hope any American woman, especially an "educated" (LOL) college woman would know enough to ask young Achmed Q. Muslim if he is married back at home, or betrothed. Most are, having been married quite young, usually to a cousin, of course.