I don’t either, but when you are talking to a gay man who is divorced and has custody of his male child, and trying to explain to him why he’s unworthy to serve as a helper in his own child’s scout troop, you begin to realise why some people really hate us.
No...I still don't realise why.
Just explain to them that this gay man broke his marital vows before God and is currently involved in another sin which disqualifies him from being a moral example in an organization that stresses morality.