Really...........hmmmm. I bet you would when you ran into people who act just like you are, selfish and uneducated with a total lack of understanding of the day to day struggles to do the most basic things that most everyone else takes for granted.
Frankly, you couldn't walk a step in my shoes or anyone else's who are parents of special needs children.
Don't sweat it, you are doing just fine serving coffee or pumping gas. You leave the heavy lifting to us.