“The saddest thing about OJ’s narcissistic behavior and life is how his children have had to endure living with him.”
Don’t worry about his children. They are already scarred and deranged for life. No one can help them at this point. The daughter is already having all kinds of problems as we speak.
This is why I am trying to alert people to this condition of Narcissism - so we can all understand how the minds of these people are so askew in their thought processes. The psychritrist on FOX said...they are like speeding cars, with the inability to apply the breaks - in life, as others do when it comes to acting, and thinking about the results of one's actions. They just do what they want, and no one, no one else's feelings, desires, hurts, etc. are important as long as they achieve their goal.
Narcissists are all around us, and so many of us feel we are wrong (sometimes in a relationship) or somehow doing something wrong, when a narcissist decides to attack. They have a way of shaking off all guilt, and putting the blame on everyone else in the world.
It is time we pay attention to this disorder, rather than try to put some understanding into these people's actions as compaired to how we would react. They simply do not react to anything like a normal person would. They are damaged goods...they have no ability to observe laws or standards, because they resent all authority or anyone who tells them why they should or should not do something.
The WORST FEAR THEY HAVE IS BEING FOUND OUT! Once that happens, they run, try to disappear for a while, but eventually the Narcissism takes over and soon they are committing all the previous acts again - all to gain some attention.
For most, their lives are played out privately and no one knows all the sordid details, so they can hide for a long time - even taking on another personality or interests and friends for a while. But it does not last. Soon they will seek out attention again, try to satisfy their (what is termed) Narcissistic Supply and get things exciting in their lives once more. They thrive on that excitement - positive or negative.
But, for OJ, his life is played out in the public eye - so his Narcissistic Supply must also come from the public. Hence he commits acts that draw attention to him through the media, and it does not make him upset at all.
Once he is in the news, he is thrilled. Truly, it is a "high" for him...attention is a drug. He will do all sorts of things to fog up the facts, as before. But he totally enjoys the game!!!!<.p