[21stCenturyFreeThinker]

Is it a crime to “communicate a desire to engage in sexual conduct” they could arrest as many guys as they wanted in every bar in America. I’ve seen guys do a lot more than tap their toes in bars - should we address all them?

The bar is fine. The bathroom is another matter. The walls are put there to provide privacy.

In my entire life I don't think my feet or hands have ever ended up in the next stall.

[gondramB]

>>The bar is fine. The bathroom is another matter. The walls are put there to provide privacy.

In my entire life I don’t think my feet or hands have ever ended up in the next stall.<<

Does that mean he’s gay? Yep, almost certainly. Is it offensive? It is to me - I don’t want guys trying to pick me up in the bathroom.

And I’d agree with you that there is an expectation of privacy once you’re in a stall - its an intrusion for the guy in the next stall to try to interact with you unless there is some kind of toilet paper emergency.

I’m saying, though, I don’t see this as something that ought to be arrestable, when the accused hasn’t said anything or made any physical contact.