[BearCub]

But I do not buy for one instant the legal theory that a homeowner has no ability to decide who is or isn't allowed into his home.

Actually, if your wife invites someone in and you don't want them there, there's not a damn thing you can (legally) do about it.

AND she doesn't need to be on the deed or lease. If she lives there she can invite anyone she wants in.

Now, the same may or may not apply to a 17 year old daughter, depending on what state you live in.

[Little Bill]

Yes, but in some states if you ask them to leave, I am and always have been sole tenant on my deeds, then you can soot them.