Don't get your shorts in a bundle I used two colors to separate what I was saying from yours.
As for vilifying her, LOL get a life and come out in to the real world where ambulance chasers are abundant and out to make a quick buck. All they have to do his say hey I will take the case pro-bono wave the thought of big green bucks in front and most will will you go for it. It is a fact of life everyone has some greed in them so live with it.
You sound like a woman going through the change in life. Are you taking your meds?