Three years ago, after a big move when I made a killing on my previous tiny old house, I convinced myself that I "deserved" a large home on an acre of land. I easily qualified for the loan, a 5-year ARM at 4.25%. The montly payments even at that rate were $1000 more than my previous mortgage, but I figured my spouse would be working soon and we could cover it easily. Three years later, my spouse has just started working at a very low salary, our property taxes have gone up twice, and we are spending a fortune on utility bills and lawn care for this huge property. I'm not facing foreclosure, but I can sure see how easy it is for people to get in over their heads, especially in a boom time when it seems everyone is buying bigger and nicer homes and money seems so cheap.
One result of this problem is a push for government to step in and prescribe tighter underwriting standards so that people can't ever qualify for a loan that is more than they can realistically repay. There will certainly not be a bailout of lenders.
Yeah... I’m a divorced mom and I have a mortgage that’s tough to make payments on but you don’t see me complaining about discrimination! LOL I did recently acquire a fiance though and that helped me deal with my June ARM increase he he. Seriously though, my payment went up about $300 but I had planned for it and knew it would be ok. Worse thing though someone screwed up my escrow at closing and now I’m making double escrow payments :( I wasn’t explecting to have to pay an extra $200/month on that!
But, I’m not planning on letting the bank foreclose! It’s war!