She’s neither ugly nor fat. She could stand to lose about 30 pounds and she’s a better than average looking woman in her late fifties.
It’s the inside that’s ugly (I don’t know about fat)
It's not so much the 30 pounds (and I just lost 25 so I know about that) as it is the distribution, which is mostly around her hips and thighs, although she also has a prominent belly. And her legs are just not attractive - what the Japanese call "daikon legs" and I would call "piano legs" - beef to the instep.
But it's her personality that's the real problem. If she didn't behave like the Reptile Queen, folks would overlook her physical shortcomings.
I agree, she's not ugly or fat. She's not bad looking at all. If you gave her a labotomy and stuffed a conservative brain and some humility in her skull she would actually be very pleasant.