Of course, if a woman really finds sleeping with her baby to have a negative effect on her either because she can't get rest or because she's been guilted by absolutists like you, then the baby is probably better off crying it out in a crib in another room.
Oh good grief! Again, “sleep deprivation” is not an issue. Babies sleep allot when they are INFANTS! You work around their schedule! THEY are the priority.
Sound like you’re a MAN with these silly comments and never had babies! Thankfully I can speak from experience. An infant needs to be in a SEPARATE bed, ideally a crib where Mom has easy access. Human beings move around in their sleep - one wrong move and you’ve crushed them. With their DEATH as a risk, I do believe any caring Mom can survive a few months of the inconvenience of getting up every three hours to breastfeed. Set an alarm - it's really not complicated to use an alarm for this. GOOD GRIEF!
“Of course, if a woman really finds sleeping with her baby to have a negative effect on her either because she can’t get rest or because she’s been guilted by absolutists like you, then the baby is probably better off crying it out in a crib in another room.”
Your EXTREME comments above, tell me you also lack common sense and quite self centered which puts an infant at RISK. It's also HEALTHY for a marriage to let the infant have a separate bed. Most males really don't want kids sleeping with them and their wife. The baby begins to get USED to sleeping there and creates problems and MANY SLEEPLESS NIGHTS to BREAK the HABIT of sleeping with Mom. Another fact conveniently over looked. So to NOT put the infant at risk, sleeping in the same bed as mom and perhaps KILLING the infant and stopping a negative habit from happening - baby being USED TO SLEEPING with Mom at the expense of Dad ... truly it makes NO sense, common or otherwise to have an INFANT sleep with mom for breastfeeding. It's no wonder healthcare professional go nuts when dealing with STUPID people! No healthcare professional would advocate this either since they SEE the result os IRRESPONSIBLE BEHAVIOR - infnat sleeping with mom - still others inisist on putting their CONVENIENCE before the safety of the baby - totally SELF CENTERED!