Well gays seem to think that straights can change, that’s why they are always recruiting.
Exactly.
If a heterosexual man marries, has kids, then, after 20 years of marriage, decides to explore being gay, the homosexuals applaud this man’s “awakening.” They argue he was gay all along, but the multiple heterosexual partners over his life fly in the face of that argument.
If you *ever* suggested that a homosexual might want to explore his heterosexual side, you are a “homophobe.” (I hate that term - disagreeing with something is NOT fear of that thing.)
Now...
I can say that YES a homosexual can absolutely change their sexual orientation. Barring the aforementioned example where we went from not gay to gay, I have personally witnessed lesbians “turn.” These are typically larger, goofy girls who just want to be loved. When no man will have them, they declare themselves lesbians to obtain the love that all humans crave. Later, when they suddenly find a man who loves them, they switch back to hetero.
That’s not “bi.” That’s sexual orientation of convenience. Whatever works at the time.
Again, I have personally known people who have made this change. (More than one.)