I was never ever good at meeting girls at a bar...too shy.
And I was a bouncer and a bartender at a Disco in the 70’s when I was in college.
I had the shy problem, but it seemed to help me attract girls (when I was single, of course).. They always came up to me (maybe to avoid the creeps with the 'one liners' trying to pick them up..)
I was teasing you, and that’s sweet. Most girls like guys who are shy or aloof. And I’ve never been in a bar, so I don’t know the pickup lines.