Good judgment sometimes comes from making bad decisions, living, and you then determine you won’t do that again.
We all hope to teach our children from our mistakes but it doesn’t always work. Did you make any of the mistakes your parents warned you about.
Your assuming that good character and good judgement will always keep you safe. We don’t know all the details of party. Were all the LAX players told to come to the house for a party or were they told strippers were going to be there. There are too many unkonwns for people to make all these judgement calls.
Two players who were charged saw the strippers arrived and the two players decided to leave the party. I’m sure this is exactly what all parents would want their kids to do. If you go somewhere with your friends and are uncomfortable or don’t like what is happening, you leave. I don’t expect when my daughters go to college that they will never leave their room except to go to class and eat.
I don’t expect that either. But if they screw up and do something wrong, I’m going to say it was wrong. I’m going to say it was immoral if it was. I won’t condone it.
That’s my point. If something is wrong, say it is.