If you believe that a) screwing around on your wife for years and then summarily dumping her vs. b) realizing that things aren't working out and making a split is just a matter of getting divorced "the right way" or "the wrong way" -- if you believe that they're morally equivalent -- then I can't help you.
Um... what I believe is that both Newt and Reagan served their country well. And, by the way, I didn’t ask for your help thank you very much.