I agree that the association is within their rights legally, but ethically, I don’t think they’re taking the moral high ground.
For you to say that really hurts because I am anything but heartless when it comes to dealing with the unfortunate, I’ve given lots of money to thoses causes and am always willing to cut a guy a braek and give him a second chance. But I won’t put up with stupidity for very long, trust me on this one.