"I always loved the question, "Do you work?""
Oh yeah! get that too!!
I've never worked so hard!
I've been a stay at home mom for 18 years, I have 5 kids, a large home on acreage that I personally (my husband works a lot of hours) take care of, many animals, etc. That said, I have never been offended by the question "do you work?" I know when someone asks that question, they mean work at a paid job. It's not meant to be insulting.