I don't know much, but I know I find out my wife has, what at the end of the day is an effectively fatal diagnosis, I'm not spending 20 hour days on a bus or plane or whatever away from her.
Sorry, I don't care what she tells me that she wants me to do it, my life goes on hold to spend as much time with her and my family as I can.
Never ever read a tombstone that said "I wish I'd spent more time at work."
If this guy is neurotic enough that he won't even put his wife first with something like this, I sure don't want him anywhere near a position of authority.
Why can't he wait to run? Why does it have to be now?? The kids will need him more than ever. Running for the presidency is gruelling and nothing else like it exists. And BEING the president is an impossible job!!