I don't have a problem with gays in the military as long as they stick to being a soldier and keep sexuality on the down-low. If they want to serve, fine with me, just don't screw your comrades, figuratively or literally. I've worked along side homosexuals and bisexuals before, they're just as hard-working as the rest of us IMO. [puts on flame suit]
You haven't served in the military with them. Those that have overwhelmingly are against homosexuals in the military. Other than homosexuals themselves and those on the "gay" agenda bandwagon. If you study up on the subject with an open mind (there's a lot of info on FR), you'll change your viewpoint.
Later I'll try to post some links, or do check out scripter's profile page. I don't have time to do anything right now, maybe later.