[toldyou]

"It being the ceremony itself, not the resume of the person's future spouse."

Has nothing to do with the resume. It has to do with the character, FRiend.

[Old_Mil]

Resume, character, whatever. The point being is that decision was made with regards to the character of the man she chose to marry, and had nothing to do with giving approval to the fact that a heterosexual wedding was taking place.