What would you have done 20 years ago? If you would have done something different, ask yourself why? Are you more enlightened now? Or are you more desensitized, or just more compromised in your principles?
actually - the issue would have a history when Vermont started w/ Civil Unions. At that time I would not have supported the idea of C.U. but, my mind has changed somewhat.......
Also - there might have been a time when I would have said that I wouldn't go to a Gay Wedding - but now that I am face-to-face with this issue.....I have decided to go.
My cousin knows where I stand. I will tell him I love him and that will be how it stands. I won't say something like...."I am glad you are married".....
.........whatever.