[GeorgefromGeorgia]

Rudy's behavior is what he has to live with. I have read that Rudy was trying to get a divorce from Donna Hanover for quite some time while she was in the Governor's Mansion. Cheating on a spouse is reprehensible, but frankly, once the decision to divorce is made, waiting for the paperwork, changes my view somewhat.

[Elyse]

I have read that Rudy was trying to get a divorce from Donna Hanover for quite some time while she was in the Governor's Mansion. Cheating on a spouse is reprehensible, but frankly, once the decision to divorce is made, waiting for the paperwork, changes my view somewhat.

You make it sound like he didn't start the affair until after he had made the decision to get divorced, but he was cheating on her well before that and I think that was one of the reasons that the divorce got so messy.