One suspects that at least some of them have the advantage of not having you around. That's something.
The circumstance of their mothers are none of your concern really. It is a perfectly natural thing for a man to father children and care for them.
You're the one who posted the information about impregnating three women and somehow equated that with masculinity. If I were asked, I would state that REAL MEN (your term), actually, you know, hang around their children and teach them what it means to be a man. But I readily admit your case may be the exception.
But since you think it is weird, and that homosexual perverts are somehow fine and dandy, I question your sanity.
Next time try reading for comprehension.
Two of them are soldiers like their father was...