[USMMA_83]

Rob, not to hijack this thread, but you again stated that "Love is a decision" what I'm saying is that it is a choice. With a decision you are going through a through process of a checklist, with a choice you can't answer the question why you love your wife, you just do.

[RobRoy]

You "Decide" to love.

Love is a decision.

I apply this definition:

1. the act or process of deciding; determination, as of a question or doubt, by making a judgment: They must make a decision between these two contestants.
2. the act of or need for making up one's mind: This is a difficult decision.
3. something that is decided; resolution: He made a poor decision.