You make a lot of statements about the Chinese with no solid justification. Money cannot buy peace. China with all its money need not "want to buy peace".
I would not want to see India as China's little brother. We have very little in common with them. India cannot have an equal relationship with China, there will only be a pretense of "mutual respect and cooperation". Your statements are naive at the best.
Well....
In international relations only nehruvian fools believe in things like brotherhood and mutual respect and cooperation...
The only thing that countries care about are their own interests..Now once China becomes India's largest trade partner and India does not happen to be China's largest trade partner...So even if you do not want to be the little brother..effectively you are what you are.....I would leave it to you to define your role...In the end it is about how much resources can the country generate and in what fashion....
Rather than getting into emotional rhetoric ... India would do better to exploit the situation any way she could...That is what every one else is doing.....