Pardon me if I was snippy. I inferred that you said women who married good looking not-rich guys wanted to control them. I guess you meant something else.
By the scenario I thought you were describing, women who married poor guys would be control freaks, and women who married rich guys would be golddiggers. Not much wiggle room.
I don't mind you being snippy, I guess you just wanted to control what I say. Hehehe.