I agree but if NJ is a "no fault" state that probably won't be possible.I,myself,believe that "no fault" laws stink.If the husband is beating the wife,molesting the kids or visiting bath houses,etc he should pay through the nose for his stinking behavior.
Ditto for the the wife if she decides she's "just not happy" or has a boyfriend,etc.
Actually I just heard that "no fault" just became law now in NJ.
I hope that doesn't heart the poor lady; she suffered enough with that lowlife husband.