I used to think that if my current major problem were taken care of, then I'd be happy, until one day I realised all it would do was allow #2 to become the new #1.
Changing his gender isn't going to solve his problems. It'll just take care of the one that's bothering him the most now and when that's gone, #2 problem will move into first place and he'll have new issues to take care of.
It's never over.
It took me a long time to understand that EVERY problem in my life was at one a solution to a previous problem.