I'm not obsessed with 'em but I have some childhood friends that went over to the "dark" side. I pray for them and remain hopeful.
Well, I am probably a lot older than you are, but I was just talking to somebody about this; I had two friends all through childhood who I am positive were gay.
Never once, to this day, has it EVER come up in conversation or action; and we did a lot of stuff together in high school, college, and to this day.
They just didn't make a big deal out of it.