[gogeo]

I'm tired of trying to adjust to the single mom's kids, where it's unfare of me to bring in a new set of rules OR expect me to sit in the corner and shut up...

Well...my advice would be, "Don't." That solves the problem, doesn't it?

[G Larry]

Not sure what your message is but it's pretty clear that whatever "don't" is meant to cover, I haven't, because I'm still single.

Are you saying:
Don't date single Mom's?
Don't bring new rules?
Don't sit in the corner and shut up?