That's a sad commentary. I hope you spend as much time making it work as you spend making sure it's painless if it fails.
I been divorced before. All it takes is a stroke of a pen from a judge to force you to give things you worked hard for even prior to the marriage. I also seen other men get raked over the coals. One person, his wife cheated, she wanted a divorce. They were married fro less than a year. The judge awarded her all property from the marriage plus property he worked hard for prior to the marriage. To add insult to injury, he had to pay her alimony and her attorney fees. You know what his occupation was ? He was a college student. She worked for a big accounting firm. Makes you wonder.....