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How a Kidnapped Boy Readjusts
time.com ^ | 1/19/07 | MICHAEL LINDENBERGER/RICHWOODS

Posted on 01/19/2007 11:39:44 AM PST by Halls

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To: daisyscarlett

Now that's Stockholm Syndrome.


201 posted on 01/19/2007 10:31:42 PM PST by sine_nomine (The United States...shall protect each of them against invasion. Article IV, 4. US Constition)
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To: Rte66

The article makes it sound like they were there investigating another stolen bike when they were informed that Shawn's bike was missing, as the officer was leaving. The officer spoke to both Shawn & his "father" Devlin.


202 posted on 01/19/2007 10:37:48 PM PST by ican'tbelieveit (Join FreeRepublic's Folding@Home team (Team# 36120), KW:Folding)
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To: ican'tbelieveit

Oh, I see what you're saying - I thought it was just the opposite.

"... The Kirkwood officer who talked to Shawn in August 2003, Christopher Moss, was summoned to the neighborhood for a stolen-bike complaint. He was getting ready to leave when he was told of another stolen bike, according to Moss' report, obtained by the Post-Dispatch through a public-records request.

"I spoke with Shawn Devlin and his father Michael Devlin," Moss wrote. "Shawn said his bicycle had been left outside on the porch area around 10 p.m. on August 14, 2003, and was missing when he went outside on August 15, 2003, around 8:30 a.m." ..."


203 posted on 01/19/2007 10:49:09 PM PST by Rte66
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To: Rte66

You know... if you think about the situation. You have a little boy being held by this man, threatened, told no one will believe him. Then, when the police, supposed protectors, show up, they don't recognize him, and they accept that this man is his father... might start believing those threats.


204 posted on 01/19/2007 10:59:00 PM PST by ican'tbelieveit (Join FreeRepublic's Folding@Home team (Team# 36120), KW:Folding)
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To: ican'tbelieveit

Exactly. And it was continuously reinforced when no one recognized him - and when a few did, but didn't do anything about it, he felt all alone.

I'm kind of wondering now if the Shawn Devlin is a dissociative persona his mind invented for protection (obviously used by his captor first).

He could tell himself he was play-acting then, but at night when he prayed to God that his parents would find him, he was Shawn Hornbeck.

It reminds me of Miss America Marilyn Vanderbur's story - she was *good child* by day and *bad child* by night when her father was assaulting her. "Day child/night child" she called it.


205 posted on 01/19/2007 11:07:24 PM PST by Rte66
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To: MPJackal

if you want the sordid details of what the 300# fat oaf did to the less than 100# Shawn, I feel sorry for you.....


206 posted on 01/19/2007 11:21:19 PM PST by cherry
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To: theDentist
why do battered women stay with their batterers?.....why do whores keep whoring even when they know that they are the targets of serial killers?.....

an 11 yro boy is supposed to be stronger than adults?....I don't think so....

207 posted on 01/19/2007 11:26:56 PM PST by cherry
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To: All

I made a compilation post of all our "Missouri Miracle" FR threads here:

http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/news/1766736/posts?page=1839#1839


208 posted on 01/20/2007 2:40:15 AM PST by Rte66
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To: Halls

This situation reminds me of a movie I watched named "I Know My Name is Steven" where boys were kidnapped by the same man but at different times through the years and how Steven behaved after reuniting with his family many years later.


209 posted on 01/20/2007 2:45:42 AM PST by johnthebaptistmoore
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To: cherry

"if you want the sordid details of what the 300# fat oaf did to the less than 100# Shawn, I feel sorry for you....."

Go F yourself. That is not what I said. I am amazed that people on a forum such as this would just say...."Can't talk about that, it is not PC". If people really want to help stop this type of thing they need to know HOW it happened so kids, parents, and neighbors can be educated. That includes how he abducted them and how he controlled them.


210 posted on 01/20/2007 4:21:44 AM PST by MPJackal ("If you are not with us, you are against us.")
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To: ReignOfError

"You're equating O'Reilly with America?"


Thanks for reading the first line of my post. Now read the rest.


211 posted on 01/20/2007 4:43:09 AM PST by wolfcreek (Please Lord, May I be, one who sees what's in front of me.)
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To: wolfcreek
Thanks for reading the first line of my post. Now read the rest.

I read it, and I have it the consideration and reply it merited.

212 posted on 01/20/2007 5:04:01 AM PST by ReignOfError
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To: ReignOfError

"I read it, and I have it the consideration and reply it merited."


Maybe I should replaced BOR with Opra. That be more mainstream for ya?


If you don't agree with the rest of my post then, just say so.


213 posted on 01/20/2007 5:55:16 AM PST by wolfcreek (Please Lord, May I be, one who sees what's in front of me.)
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To: ican'tbelieveit; Halls

I agree. I can't believe the police officers did not recognize him. This was 2003, 10 months after he was kidnapped against his will at gunpoint, at the age of 11. The gift thing being the typical MO for an abuser. It seems Shawn was let down by a lot of people. This most likely reinforced what the pedophile was telling Shawn how people would react to him (Shawn) . Just another reason he never called out for help. I would like to reinterate this article by Michael Reagan if any still wonder, why? It puts everything into perspective. Everyone needs to read this and educate themselves before posting negative comments about the boy.

http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/1770349/posts


214 posted on 01/20/2007 6:04:19 AM PST by BonneBlue
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To: Rte66
"He could tell himself he was play-acting then, but at night when he prayed to God that his parents would find him, he was Shawn Hornbeck."

This statement of yours is probably so true and so very sad. Shawn needs our prayers and not our judgement. The pedophile who stole him is the one that needs our justified wrath.

215 posted on 01/20/2007 6:08:12 AM PST by BonneBlue
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To: MPJackal

Hi,
I hope you do not mind me responding to you. I have no problem with people wanting to know how and why for for their own well being and that of their children. It is the posters that continually want to bash the child victim before they know all facts that I have a problem with. This article by Michael Reagan is most excellent. I showed it to my husband last night and even he had no idea. It made him understand it better. This article is for public publication however Michael Reagan resists getting more graphic but if you would like to know a little more I could privately email you. Please read this article, pass it around, and tell your children not only how NOT to get kidnapped. But also inform them on what to do in case they DO get kidnapped. We are failing our children by not telling them the whole story. We expect so much out of these little ones. Really in reality, how is a 100 lb child to protect themself from a big adult with muscles and strength. Please read this article and pass it around. Thanks!

http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/1770349/posts


216 posted on 01/20/2007 6:19:32 AM PST by BonneBlue
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To: theDentist

" Children molested will sometimes show affection towards the abusers in hopes of not being molested again (wrongly). "


Exactly, but some people think that means--they LIKE it- or are in agreement. People do break, POW's, abused women, just because a women stays in an abusive relationship out of fear, doesn't mean she likes it. The key word is fear and I don't understand how people don't get that.
If military POW's can be broken and grown women in abusive relationships, how can someone expect a 11 yrs old boy to cope. He is not the problem, it is his abductor.
People go into the survival mode.


217 posted on 01/20/2007 6:43:06 AM PST by surelyclintonsbaddream
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To: OldFriend
Devlin is a monster and needs to be put away for ever, who cannot agree to that? That doesn't even NEED to be said. What some of us (most of us I suspect) are saying is the parents have afforded the boy no privacy in which to recover by putting HIM (not themselves) but HIM on national TV and discussing what happened to him while he squirmed in embarrassment and shame on camera.
218 posted on 01/20/2007 6:52:41 AM PST by Ditter
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To: Ditter
I totally disagree with your assessment. The boy has done nothing wrong and he has NOTHING to be ashamed of. He should not have to hide in shame.

He was an abused and exploited eleven year old and is not to be hidden away or blamed by anyone.

His parents are actively involved in finding missing children. They need to let other parents know there are processes out there to help them.

Why should Shawn hide his face? He is to be honored and showered with love and attention.

219 posted on 01/20/2007 6:56:24 AM PST by OldFriend (THE PRESS IS AN EVIL FOR WHICH THERE IS NO REMEDY)
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To: OldFriend
We agree on one thing the boy has done nothing to be ashamed of, but he was obviously embarrassed to be the center of attention. I think he need some time before being put up for examination.
220 posted on 01/20/2007 7:04:33 AM PST by Ditter
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