Was she talking about Precious?? What men have abused her? This is her 2nd go around on falsely crying rape. She screwed around on her husband. I'm just not seeing any abuse done TO her. She isn't anyones victim. She's a willing participant in this hoax. In my humble opinion...
I think what Mrs. Evans may have been referring to, and I could certainly be wrong, is a theory that some women who are promiscuous have been abused by men earlier in their lives. I also think that Mrs. Evans was being as kind as she could be to Crystal, which is one of the marks of true class, at least IMHO. She didn't want to add fuel to the fire by saying anything that could stoke any more resentment.
I do agree with you that Crystal is a willing participant in this hoax, especially since she wants to move forward with the charges even though Nifong has been removed. However, I think Mrs. Evans was trying to make the point that Nifong blew this case up out of nothing, purely for his own selfish desires. Nifong didn't care who got chewed up and spat out in the process, as long as he could get re-elected, and get his "precious" pension (pardon the pun).