However, if it left her with issues, it doesn't mean that she should be allowed to work out said issues on other people's sons.
True,but human nature often leads people to see the world through a distorted lens.
Lets say I had a child who was molested.Years later I was asked to serve on a jury who had a child molestation case.
I SHOULD NOT let me own experience stop me from being fair minded to the defendant.
Yet I'm afraid I would not be able to disconnect my child from the victim.