I'm looking for a 5 passenger SUV with all the safety features, including Electronic Stability Control. So far I haven't found an American one that I like. Also, it seems that all new vehicles have large blind spots in the rear corners.
Finding one with ESC should be fairly easy. That feature costs the automakers very little to add and is a great selling feature.
I had a Jeep GC and didn't have a problem with blind spots. If you're uncomfortable with what's behind you you might consider adding a rear view camera and they are priced very reasonably now.
In the spirit of keeping GM #1, take a look at the GMC Envoy. If you want a full size, the GMC Yukon. They come with a 100,000 mile warranty. That is 64,000 more miles that Toyota offers. The quality of the new GM vehicles is every bit as good as Toyota. I one of each right now - a Chevy pickup and a Toyota Highlander.